Skip to main content

Havening Techniques combine gentle, self-applied or practitioner-guided touch with distraction to help calm the nervous system. The approach aims to reduce the emotional intensity of distressing thoughts or memories.

What happens in a Havening session?

You will identify a specific issue, then use guided touch (such as stroking the arms) alongside mental tasks. Some practitioners teach self-havening techniques to use between sessions.

What can Havening Techniques help with?

  • Anxiety and stress responses
  • Emotional overwhelm
  • Distressing memories (mild to moderate)

Evidence and limitations

Evidence is emerging but limited. Havening should not replace evidence-based therapy for complex trauma or severe mental health conditions.

Safety

Work should be paced carefully. Seek clinical support if distress increases or if you have significant trauma symptoms.

History of Havening Techniques

Havening Techniques were developed in the early 21st century, drawing on neuroscience concepts and psychosensory input. Training standards and use vary by practitioner background.

Typical conditions that use Havening Techniques

Showing 68 conditions where Havening Techniques is commonly used.

Condition Evidence Notes

Complex PTSD

moderate

Havening for PTSD and trauma.

Performance anxiety

moderate

Havening for performance anxiety.

Phobias

moderate

Havening for phobias.

Public speaking nerves

moderate

Havening for public speaking nerves.

Social anxiety

moderate

Havening for social anxiety.

Stress

limited

Deep relaxation response.

Trauma after accident or assault

moderate

Havening for trauma after accident/assault.

Addiction / dependency support

moderate

Havening for addiction.

Anger issues

moderate

Havening for anger.

Anxiety

limited

Emotional calming.

Attachment issues

moderate

Havening for attachment issues.

Body image concerns

moderate

Havening for body image.

Compulsive behaviours

moderate

Havening for compulsive behaviours.

Confidence building

moderate

Havening for confidence.

Difficulty reaching orgasm

moderate

Havening for orgasm difficulties.

Domestic abuse recovery support (sensitive)

moderate

Havening for domestic abuse recovery.

Eating disorder recovery support (alongside specialist care)

moderate

Havening for eating disorder recovery.

Emotional eating

moderate

Havening for emotional eating.

Erectile dysfunction

moderate

Havening for erectile dysfunction.

Exam stress

moderate

Havening for exam stress.

Feeling overwhelmed

moderate

Havening for overwhelm.

Generalised anxiety disorder (GAD)

moderate

Havening for GAD.

Grief and bereavement

moderate

Havening for grief.

Guilt

moderate

Havening for guilt.

Health anxiety

moderate

Havening for health anxiety.

Imposter syndrome

moderate

Havening for imposter syndrome.

Intimacy concerns

moderate

Havening for intimacy.

Intimacy difficulties

moderate

Havening for intimacy difficulties.

Intrusive thoughts

moderate

Havening for intrusive thoughts.

Irritability

moderate

Havening for irritability.

Jealousy

moderate

Havening for jealousy.

Libido concerns (supportive)

moderate

Havening for libido.

Life transitions / adjustment issues

moderate

Havening for life transitions.

Loneliness

moderate

Havening for loneliness.

Low confidence

moderate

Havening for low confidence.

Low libido

moderate

Havening for low libido.

Low mood in men

moderate

Havening for male low mood.

Low motivation

moderate

Havening for low motivation.

Low self-esteem

moderate

Havening for low self-esteem.

Motivation and goal setting

moderate

Havening for motivation.

Painful sex (dyspareunia)

moderate

Havening for dyspareunia.

Panic attacks

moderate

Havening for panic.

Parenting stress

moderate

Havening for parenting stress.

People pleasing

moderate

Havening for people pleasing.

Perfectionism

moderate

Havening for perfectionism.

Postnatal emotional support

moderate

Havening for postnatal support.

Pregnancy anxiety support

moderate

Havening for pregnancy anxiety.

Premature ejaculation

moderate

Havening for premature ejaculation.

Procrastination

moderate

Havening for procrastination.

Relationship conflict

moderate

Havening for relationship conflict.

Relationship stress (men)

moderate

Havening for male relationship stress.

Resilience building

moderate

Havening for resilience.

Rumination / overthinking

moderate

Havening for rumination.

Self-harm thoughts (sensitive)

moderate

Havening for self-harm recovery.

Separation / divorce support

moderate

Havening for separation/divorce.

Sexual difficulties

moderate

Havening for sexual difficulties.

Sexual performance anxiety (supportive)

moderate

Havening for sexual performance anxiety.

Sexual wellbeing concerns (supportive)

moderate

Havening for sexual wellbeing.

Shame

moderate

Havening for shame.

Skin picking (dermatillomania) support

moderate

Havening for skin picking.

Sleep anxiety

moderate

Havening for sleep anxiety.

Social isolation

moderate

Havening for social isolation.

Trouble falling asleep

moderate

Havening for sleep onset insomnia.

Trust issues

moderate

Havening for trust issues.

Vaginismus

moderate

Havening for vaginismus.

Weight management (behaviour change support)

moderate

Havening for weight management.

Workplace stress

moderate

Havening for workplace stress.

Low mood

limited

Wellbeing support.

Frequently asked questions

Who provides the touch?

Often self-applied under guidance; practitioner contact is optional and consent-led.

Will I need to talk about difficult memories?

Only at a pace that feels safe. Preparation and grounding are used.

How many sessions will I need?

Varies by goals; you can review progress and adjust the plan.